Dear fresh:
It’s your brand-new beginning toward another stage of life once you getting into your college. You might get plenty of fantasies about how the college life is or how your fellows will look like when you were still in high school. You might wonder is there a big difference between high school and college? Yes, truly is. Those high school mates might live in the same city or community with your, but your college fellows come from different cities or even other countries.
To accept those so different people from you is one of the most important lessons that you won’t learn in classes and you need to learn by yourself. And also it’s your best timing to open your friendships or romance in such environment.
Trough different school circles, such as school teams or other extracurricular activities, you can aim at those people who have the same interest and easily break the ice with common topics. If you’re not so interested in those school circles, you can expand your circle to other part-time jobs which attract you more.
Always being curious about your fellows is one thing important if you want to open your relationship. You may meet some people whose growing backgrounds or experiences totally differ than yours which may arouse your interest and make you want to know more about them. Yes, go ahead. Pay attention on what they say, what they care about. Maybe their story can inspire you or recall your memories back.
After you start to build your relationships, here comes the most difficult part—— the getting-along process. Some people may say, friendship is as fragile as glass, and you may agree the saying. However, it’s the process which forces you to face your disadvantages, strengthen your acceptability of differentia and even your E.Q. You can believe understandings come from time-after-time communications and friendship will be your back-up when you need help.
As the blooming youth, it’s also the perfect age to develop your romance. A wonderful romance can color your college life and a suitable mate for you can also be possible turning up in this period, as long as you open your mind and treat others sincerely. One thing important—— don’t cheat or betray your lover, which may hurt both of your memory a lot.
Positively, the getting-along process must get some difficulties and it’s a challenge for you both to do more communications with patience and use grown-up maturity dealing with every knot. You may feel depressed, confused, or even losing confidence during the process; still, you can convince yourself to make more efforts to your limitation.
No matter friendships or love affairs, all need being taken care with lots efforts and consideration. No one can exist without others’ love or help. Once having successful relationships in college, you can enjoy your social life easily. To learn how to get along with others also help your future relationships with boss or coworkers in the society. Just don’t be lazy to manage your relationships with others.
Nancy